How to Keep the Spark Alive in a Relationship

How to Keep the Spark Alive in a Relationship

How to Keep the Spark Alive in a Relationship- This question has troubled many couples for a really long time now! My partner is losing interest in me, he/she doesn’t love me anymore, it has become boring- are some of the common dialogues we often hear from our friends. And we often find them either looking for help or falling out of love. The secret to a long-lasting relationship is not in big gestures, but little moments and things that help you keep the love alive- or ‘spark’ as it is fondly known. And then there were these ways which can surely help you out! Read on and bask in love forever!

Don’t Forget

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Forgetting dates, forgetting to take them on a date, little things, tasks, chores etc. can slowly hamper the relationship. While people may suggest you eat almonds, try and keep notes of these things. Use Google Reminders, it’s pretty easy. What’s even better? Set occasion reminders online and let the brands remind you of important dates!

Keep it Real, not Perfect

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A relationship isn’t about being perfect all the time. It is about being real. Show your partner real love, not the one where you are mentally on a call! Observe, comment, get involved in conversations (not hmm and okays), fight, make up, Just keep going. Silence and assumption- two things that kill most relationships.

 Agree to Disagree

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Well well! Someone had to say it! If she likes Money Heist, and you love Friends, adapt. At least try- watch one or two episodes together, you may see why they love it so much, and eventually you may start liking it. And if you don’t then it’s ok, you tried and that is what matters.

Pamper Each other with Gifts

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Surprise gifts can play a huge role in keeping the spark alive. It makes your special one feel loved and appreciated. Imagine the look on their face when they receive an unexpected bouquet or a plant! Pair it with a small love note and repeat this process every month and you are good to go!

 Take Random Trips

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Take out time and plan trips together. Support and motivate each other to try all adventure activities. It will bring you closer to your partner.

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