The dating world has a lot of complicated words that people don’t understand. And, one of these words is ‘ Ghosting’. No, it’s not related to spirits or ghosts. On the contrary, it refers to cutting ties with a person without explaining. We all have experienced ghosting at some point in our life, or we have done it to someone else. If you belong to the former group, we have a few tips for getting over this helpless feeling. Take a look!
Don’t Chase
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Did your first date go well, but you didn’t receive any text or call? If it’s been a week already and they haven’t responded to your texts, then it means they are ghosting you. Stop texting or calling them and carry on with the other dates you planned. Remember, you are not made for everyone, and there’s plenty of fish in the sea. Isn’t it right?
Drop the Last Message or Don’t
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If you are still feeling anxious and you shared a bond, drop the last message. Tell them how they made you feel, and you will never forget it but are forgiving and moving on. On the other hand, if you are a strong person, then just skip it.
Self Love is the Cure
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Taking rejection isn’t easy. You can’t get stuck to it and stop living your life. Start spending time with yourself, pamper yourself and do what you love the most. Go out for a shopping spree, order a present or flowers for yourself and indulge in your favourite desserts. You may even go out with friends who actually love your presence.
Take a Break from Dating
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If you have become conscious about yourself, then you should stop dating for a while. Take a break, spend time with yourself or your family and practise meditation to calm yourself down.
Forget about it & Move On
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Finally, accept the apology you never got and forget the whole experience. Go live your life again and start dating again. Be the confident person you already are.
