Love & Romance

10 Signs He is Serious about You

Dating for quite some time and still unsure if he is seriously into you. Well, everyone goes through this question – “how serious is he about me?” Knowing the answer to this question is important because if you are investing your time in a guy you should be sure about him.

If these ten things (or most of them) sound familiar or are happening with you, then he is serious about you.

You are his top priority:

you are his top priority

He never makes excuses to see you rather goes out of his way to arrange that meeting because you rule his mind.

Oh! boy, he is damn curious about you:

he is curious about you

He wants answers to all questions like- What makes you nervous, what are your passions, what makes you angry, where your confidence lies, who is your favourite TV character and etc. In a nutshell, he wants a deep connection with you!

He resolves issues rather than escalating them:

resolves issues

A gentleman with deep feelings for you will never escalate the argument, he will always try to bring a solution to it and see you happy. If he does that, don’t lose him at all.

He consults you in his matters:

he consults you

There are matters that we all want to keep to ourselves. But in case he shares all his details with you and asks for your opinions or advice, that means he is serious about you and the relationship.

He wants you in his group of friends & family:

meet family

Once every two months, does he take you out with his friends? Probably that means he wants you to know his group of friends and connect with his family. He is serious about you girl!

He has eyes for all your little details:

details

If he remembers how much sugar you prefer in your coffee, gifts you those earrings that you glanced at a mall, or notices your new haircut – that means all the details are being noted.

He plans & sticks to them:

plan and stick

A guy is serious about you when he plans his weekdays and weekends so that he can meet you. Spending time with you and having fun together is his priority and he rarely cancels them.

He always initiates contact:

he initiates contact

If he is serious about you, then probably he texts you, calls you and promises to call you if he misses your call. You never have to worry at all regarding any gap in communication.

He talks about a future together:

he sees his future with you

Does he share his thoughts on- he wants to travel with you, experiences he wants to have with you, and most importantly starts saving for your future? Girl, he is damn serious about you then.

He is open about your relationship:

open about relationship

Is he always open about your love relationship? Well, that’s the biggest sign that he is serious about you and want to take this relationship forward.

About the author

Shruti Sood

Shruti is crazy about F.R.I.E.N.D.S & that is the first thing she tells everyone she meets! In a parallel universe, she is a passionate writer! She loves to research about various things and make her write-ups informative. She is a marketing professional by day and wears many other hats during the rest of the day! She loves to travel, paint, write poems, play music, and watch memes!

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