Is Saying 'Sorry' Important In Relationship?
It is said that true relationships don't just happen. They take time, patience and two lovely people, who truly love each other and want to be together always. It is a union of two flawed souls refusing to give upon each other and always stand together no matter what. Sometimes two people have to fall apart to realize how much they need to fall back together. The best part of being in a relationship is that you actually mean something to someone. Sometimes the greatest relationships are the ones which you never expected to be in. A real relationship has fights, patience, jealousy, secrets, faith, tears, trust, love and sometimes 'sorry' too. There should be no ego in a relationship to make the bond stronger.
Sometimes saying sorry to each other is very important, it is the truest aspect of true relationship in the real sense. If you are in a true relationship and you had a fight with your partner, it doesn't matter whose fault it is but saying sorry will make you feel better and loved. Apologizing doesn't always mean that you are wrong and other person is right. It just means that you value your relationship more than your ego. Ego has no place in a true relationship; it is always 'WE' rather than 'ME' in a perfect relationship. It good to say sorry first because for every minute you are angry, you lose 60 seconds of your life's happiness. Even the best of friends makes mistakes and has misunderstandings sometimes but a sweet sorry makes everything better.
So, when you are facing a challenge in your relationship, don't hesitate to send "I am Sorry" gifts to your special someone like a Sorry emoticon cushion, lovely flower bouquet, or a basket of chocolates. It is always better to buy these gifts and save your relationship!
Some relationships are just like Tom and Jerry; they laugh at each other, knock down one other, irritate one other but again cannot live without each other. It doesn't matter whose fault it was, just get apart from your ego and say sorry, it will make you feel light and nurture your relationship towards a happy life. When you can share every secret and story with each other, no lies than why to think much to say sorry to each other. A perfect relationship is a mix of happy and sad moments it has no ego no attitude. True relationships always has no conditions, it always means caring without expectations, listening without judging, Talking without intensions and giving without reasons.
Saying sorry when you had a fight or are at fault makes you feel better and forgiveness is always the best form of love. Sometimes you say 'sorry' a million times and say 'I love you' as much as you want but there is no use of the same if you don't prove that the things you say are true, because if you can show it your words really don't mean a thing. Sometimes apologizing is the most difficult thing on this planet, but remember that it is the best and priceless thing to save a very expensive gift called 'relationship'.