Being in love is inevitable
Keeping the spark alive needs efforts!
The excitement of a new relationship makes you feel on the top of the world. Life seems like a beautiful painting where the strokes of worries mark its absence. All you see is the brightness of every colour and feel butterflies all around… But as the time passes by, the colours fade and butterflies wear out. It’s not the absence of love, (definitely not!) but the human instinct of getting used to! It’s not a very troublesome situation if you know the correct measures and you take them the very day monotony sneaks in.
Keep the Element of Surprise Alive
Surprise your partner from time to time in a variety of ways. Arrive home with a small gift, cook your partner’s favourite meal or book a surprise weekend getaway. Such surprises will prevent you from getting stuck in a relationship rut and keep it fresh and exciting.
Send Romantic Text Messages
When you’re apart, send romantic text messages to one another. This can build anticipation for when you’ll see each other again. Use texting to send short messages of love, admiration, and encouragement. It is a simple and easy way to keep the romance in your relationship.
Schedule Regular Date
No matter how long you both have been in this relationship, never trade your lovely dates for the comfortable dinners at home on the couch. This brings in the dullness. Go out more often with your love and meet friends and other couples.
Feelings Are Meant To Be Expressed
Use words to express your feelings. Never keep them to yourself or do not feel shy in telling what you don’t appreciate. As the time passes, we tend to forget the mushy things we used to say to one another. Never expect your beloved to understand the unspoken. Speak, that’s how a relationship matures!
Try Something New Together
This is one of the most interesting way which can add a lot of sparkle to your relationship. You can take a continental cooking class, volunteer a cleaning campaign in your society or learn a dance form together. It helps you grow together.
Spend Time with Other Couples
It is important. Very important. You meet other couples, interact with them and learn a lot of things which is good for your relationship. It reinforces the importance of commitment and helps bring you two all the more closer.
Discuss Your Hopes and Dreams
The conversation on your dreams and goals used to be a topic at the time of dating but it usually fades as the relationship grown. It should be talked about. Do not let it fall by the wayside. Make out time to have a meaningful conversation about your hopes and also find out what your partner seeks and help him/her achieve it!
Hope you gained something from the above points. Go and try some of them and it’s the best thing if you are already doing it.
