{"id":15650,"date":"2020-09-18T15:36:22","date_gmt":"2020-09-18T10:06:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.fnp.com\/blog\/?p=15650"},"modified":"2024-12-17T10:53:15","modified_gmt":"2024-12-17T05:23:15","slug":"can-you-really-be-friends-with-your-ex","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.fnp.com\/blog\/can-you-really-be-friends-with-your-ex","title":{"rendered":"Can you really be Friends with Your Ex?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Can we still be friends? It\u2019s likely to be the first question that comes to your mind when you break up. The answer may not be as simple or direct as you think. It depends on a lot of factors \u2013 the kind of relationship you had with your ex or how badly you want to be friends with the person. Also, the question arises\u2026 is it even worth it? Is it healthy to stay friends with your ex?<\/span><\/p>\n<h4><b>Why do people want to stay friends with their ex?<\/b><\/h4>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When a relationship ends, it\u2019s usually due to bad habits, cheating, unsupportive partner, lack of communication or giving up on the relationship. So, when people break up with their partner, it\u2019s not usually for good reasons. And things get quite bitter after that.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Still, some people want to stay friends with their ex. Maybe, because they enjoy having the person in their life. Having spent so many years together, they can\u2019t imagine not having them in their life. Or maybe, they don\u2019t like to end things on a bad note. Cutting ties with a romantic partner is not easy. A partner is someone you tell everything to. Opening up in front of them makes you vulnerable. That\u2019s why when you break up, you not only lose a love partner but lose a friend as well. Therefore, people decide to keep their friendship even if they have to lose the romance.<\/span><\/p>\n<h4><b>Now the question comes\u2026 can you really be friends with your ex?<\/b><\/h4>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">To be honest, you get to decide. But is being friends with an ex truly possible? It\u2019s not impossible, but it\u2019s not going to be easy. You can\u2019t simply slip into being friends with your ex without a problem. The romantic feelings don\u2019t just disappear, and they may create a problem.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There are certain things you did not like in your partner, which you can\u2019t point out every time being a friend. Because they no longer affect your life like it did when you were together. 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